What is Fit for Love?
- Fit for Love podcast is like your favourite soap opera meets a game night for the soul, with the best advice that a lovely grandmother could give you.
- Fit for Love is a podcast about what love is and what love is not.
- Fit for love will give you tips on how to love yourself and experience true love.
- Fit for Love is a programme that stimulates your five senses, connects you with Nature and the 4 elements within, which will inspire you to love and feel loved like never before.
- Fit for Love blends art with ancestral healing methods for your happiness and wellbeing.
- Fit for Love is fun, revealing, insightful and effective, tested with over 25000 people to help them communicate and relate from the heart.
- Fit for Love is all about the heart and to make better choices for your life’s journey.
It has taken me a lifetime to be FIT for LOVE and I want to share with you how to be loved and love the way you deserve.
The meaning of LOVE
What is love for us and how can we understand and feel? That connection to love is all. What is love is energy, love is nature and how we carry within ourselves all the elements. Our blood is the water, our body is the earth, the breath is the wind. The fire is our spirit. When we feel our heart beat faster, what is that force driving us? To be attracted to someone and reject another?
Who is the Love Podcaster?
I am Katiushka Borges, passionate about love since I was three years old, when I had my first boyfriend (link to My First Love Story).
I will talk to you about the wide meaning of love. That experience we have in relationships, the experience we have about love and with nature starting with self-love.
Why can I speak about Love and share this podcast with you? I wear a few hats: Published Author, Multisensory Artist, Internationally Certified Love Coach, Journalist, Radio presenter, Medicine woman, a very good friend and a cheeky grandmother.
Among other academic certifications and awards, I love people and I have dedicated my life to help them to love and be loved, as they deserve.
I created Fit for Love programme because I feel it will enhance your life, the love for yourself, and also improve your relationship with everything and with everyone around you. We are driven by unconscious pattern and the more aware we become. The happier we can be to be able to manage our expectations and also other people’s expectations.
The FIT for LOVE programme is going to include different sections, games, love stories, love and relationship advice, tests, and challenges.
Our permanent sections include:
Oracle readings (to make better choices in life as the messages connect with your heart)
Link to request a consultation
What love is like for you? (interviews with people to know their Love metahphors or symbols)
Link to submit their answers
Link to listen to the song What is Love Like?
What do you need to be FIT for LOVE? (interviews with people about their views on what does it mean to be FIT for LOVE?)
Link to submit their answers.
Ask Mama Songa (everything you want to know about love relationships in your current or past situation, our agony aunt will respond to requests submitted via our links)
Other sections include:
My First Love Story (You can submit yours if you want here)
The Itch (Interactive Soap Opera with characters like Torment Mary, Lupe Betrayal, Johnny Casanova, Game Boy and other characters you might want to run away from).
How to stop kissing frogs and snakes (an effective programme to start becoming FIT for LOVE)
About LOVE (Views and reviews of books or ideas by philosophers, spiritual leaders, lovers, writers like Eric Fromm, Arthur Schopenhauer, Anais Nin, Buddha and Love by Lama Ole Nydahl, and many others.
Erotic Menus (to seduce the palate to get straight to the heart of your date or partner)
My First Love Story
I had my first boyfriend when I was 3 years old. I remember every moment, from the first time I saw him, we played together, and I even crossed the street to visit him at his house, which was opposite to mine just to be together with him. The other children noticed we were in love and proposed we played the war and peace game. We stood in the middle of a circle, back to back, to move our heads left and right, while the children will shout WAR or PEACE. If our heads turned in the same direction, it was peace and a kiss, and if our heads turned into the opposite direction, it was war and a slap on the face. I was 5 years of age and he was 7. I was tormented with the idea that I had to hit him, and when the time came to get the rewards and the punishment, I was very happy to kiss him on the cheek, while the other kids watched, and applauded laughing, but I did not want to slap him, so I did it very gentle like a caress, but the other kids surrounding us, started yelling and demanding I had to slap him harder.
It felt weird to be watched while I was doing both the kiss and even more so the slap. I looked forward to the next time where I could kiss him again but not the slap. We tried to have a code to turn heads in the same direction but it was not fun for the other kids.
We read and exchanged comic books, tried to sell unsuccessfully fresh lemonade in a very quiet street, so we had to give it to other kids for free and drink the rest ourselves. It was exciting to wake up in the morning and look forward to see him again and again…playing hide and seek, cops and robbers, and catch me if you can, until one day, while I was 7 and he was 8, I felt out of love. His name, Andres, had a sister, 2 years younger than him. Margarita, she was sweet but he will hit her and mistreated her, which I found disturbing.
He was changing and I did not like the way he was behaving, he became aggressive and I did not want to play with him anymore. I become close to her and distanced myself from him. I broke up with him. We moved out that neighbourhood and I did not see him again until I was 15 and he was 16, we met at a Bowling alley, and it was instant connection again. He was quite handsome and had a deeper voice from the one I remembered…I fell in love with him again, we played bowling, and we laughed and laughed like when we were kids. He had stolen his father’s car and we sat inside the car to keep talking, and we kiss in the lips with tongue for hours. I had to leave and we did not say a word, we never saw each other again.
Some years later I found out he married the cousin of one of my best friends. Interesting how life and love moves.